Table of contents:
- How do you come to terms with a barren verdict?
- Tips to move on and start living without children
- Find happiness another way
After being declared infertile and unable to have children, it is not uncommon for this to make you completely upset. There are several things you can do, including adopting children or even continuing your life without children or children. But unfortunately it is not easy to ignore and throw away the dream of having children.
Between continuing to try or giving up, both are okay to do. However, if you start to decide to try to start a childless life, you certainly need a few things that can strengthen you and your partner. You can also find other ways and happiness that can replace your noble dreams. Then, how to start it all?
How do you come to terms with a barren verdict?
It is not easy to make peace after being convicted of not being able to have children. But in this world, you are not the only childless couple who will experience sorrow to the end. Many other couples have had similar cases, but they decide to enjoy life and finally be happy.
The key is to accept destiny sincerely and believe that this is all God's decision to give happiness in other ways for both of you. Living without children can also be a gateway through which you can see the world around you. For example, maybe you can connect with old friends and enjoy life together like it was in the old days.
One of the things you can benefit from, perhaps, is freedom. The freedom that you and your partner get can slowly move towards happiness. For example, you can help your family, relatives, or even other people. You can also participate in charities, help others in need, or serve the community. By helping or giving each other, the body will undoubtedly feel its own happiness and satisfaction.
Tips to move on and start living without children
You and your partner can change certain views about life without children. Many couples think that children are a source of happiness, and change with the other joys they find. However, there are still many paths and sources of happiness, which you may not have found.
Find happiness another way
As stated above, if you can find happiness in another way. You can still joke, laugh and share happiness with friends, neighbors, or even people who have a similar path of life to you. Find and create your own happiness.
On the other hand, you may not be able to find happiness with your biological child on your own. However, it can still be overcome. Spend time with nephews, orphanages, children of relatives, which sharing with other children can recharge your strength and insert the desired happiness in between your activities.
Moreover, some studies say that living without children is not something to be saddened by or a source of health problems for psychological problems. Those who can be happy without children are reportedly just as happy as people who have children. Because they enjoy life in other ways and find other happiness, together with their partner, without having to lament their fate.
