Table of contents:
- After a breakup, avoid the following
- 1. Pretend to be tough
- 2. Immediately invite her back or keep in touch, just because you are lonely
- 3. Immediately find a new partner, let me hurry move on
- 4. Intending to take revenge
Who is not upset if he is in a breakup? Whether it's you who got dumped or vice versa, breaking up is still not easy and can be confusing. However, on the other hand, you have a life to live. So that, you need to think positive and move on of this condition. Even though it's not easy, you have to get used to it from now on. There are lots of things you shouldn't do after a breakup if you really want to be right awaymove on. Anything?
After a breakup, avoid the following
1. Pretend to be tough
Many people don't want to admit that they are heartbroken, sad, angry, and upset because of their breakup. Most people just pretend that they are all right and as if nothing had happened before.
In fact, this is what you should avoid if you want to get away from your ex's shadow. Let yourself grieve, cry, and find someone who can listen to your heart. That way, your heart problem will be resolved faster than having to pretend to be tough at first.
The point is to be honest with yourself about how you felt in that moment, vent in a healthy way, and after that you will feel better.
2. Immediately invite her back or keep in touch, just because you are lonely
After a breakup, you will feel a lot of changes. Maybe, from morning until you want to sleep at night, your life cannot be separated from it. When you feel this, you may want to call him back, either by phone or chat. However, believe me, if you do this, your worries will not end.
It is difficult at first to adapt and lose the figure that usually accompanies you, but you have to get used to it from now on. Distract your mind with other things, for example doing activities that you couldn't do before when you were with the him. Take more time to meet your friends, this can help you forget about it.
After all, try asking yourself, do you really miss your ex or just lost the figure of a partner? Of course these two things are different.
3. Immediately find a new partner, let me hurry move on
Well, this is what many people often do after a breakup, namely to rush to find a new partner to heal their wounds. In fact, the problem of your heart is not over with the him. Yes, after a painful breakup, choosing to be alone first was the right decision.
By not rushing it, you can judge and find a partner who is better suited to your conditions. In fact, if you immediately start a new relationship, it makes you tend to be reckless and careless when choosing a partner.
So, take the time to process what has happened and learn from what you experienced with your ex.
4. Intending to take revenge
Whatever problems make you and him break up, you should just end there. If you intend to take revenge, then new troubles will arise between you. This of course will not make your heart and life calm, only cause other turmoil.
After all, instead of busy thinking about the right way to get revenge on him, it's better to do things that are more useful to yourself. Again, your life is still going on and you also need to focus on growing yourself. So, leave your ex and move on.
