Characteristics of faked female orgasm

It's no secret, women orgasm less frequently during sex than men. Although there are no exact figures, a number of studies have shown that penetrative sex alone is difficult to bring a woman to climax. Because it rarely happens, many women then fake orgasm in front of their partner. As a man, you may wonder if your partner is really orgasming or just faking it. Well, first pay attention to the various characteristics of real and fake orgasms in the following explanation.

Why would anyone fake an orgasm?

Usually the main reason a woman fakes an orgasm is that she fails to orgasm from sex. Many women believe that a man will be more passionate and confident if he is able to make a woman reach climax. To please their partners, some women choose to fake orgasms.

Unlike men who usually orgasm followed by ejaculation, female orgasm is usually not so visible or felt by men. So even if a woman fakes an orgasm, her partner may not even realize that she is just being tricked.

What happens to a woman's body during a real orgasm

So that you can distinguish between real and fake orgasms, you must first know what a real orgasm looks like. When engaging in sexual activity, women will go through several stages of the body's reaction to stimulation. Pay attention to the steps below.

The stage of arousal arises. The woman's body will begin to respond to sexual stimulation that is given to the body. The muscles begin to tighten, the heart races, the breath hurts, the nipples harden, the clitoris tightens, and a natural lubricating fluid comes out of the vagina.

Anticipation stage. At this point, women are already anticipating or imagining more pleasure. Signs include the clitoris being more sensitive to touch, the muscles in the legs and hands getting tighter, more rapid breathing, faster heart rates, and redness of the skin.

Climax stage (orgasm). After receiving the right stimulation, women will reach the peak of pleasure which is marked by orgasm. This stage only lasts a few seconds. The muscles that were tightened will contract violently, especially in the feet and hands. The feet and hands usually make movements such as gripping something tightly. On top of that, the woman seemed out of breath. The walls and mouth of the vagina tighten so they get tighter, as if to "bite" the penis. In many women, both eyelids will close when they reach orgasm.

Relax stage. A few seconds after orgasm, the woman's body will return to relax and limp. This means that he has successfully released his sexual energy and passion. The tense muscles around the vagina slowly relax. Heart rate and breathing rate gradually slows down to normal again.

The many characteristics of real and fake orgasms

After understanding the characteristics of the real female orgasm, you must be able to distinguish it from the fake one. Usually women who fake orgasm will sigh a lot. Yet according to various studies, a woman's sighing is not an automatic reaction to her body because she is aroused. The sighing sound is made up to make her partner feel "manly" in bed. Although there are people who like to sigh in bed, real orgasms usually have minimal sighs or screams.

The most obvious feature of a false orgasm other than a sigh is muscle contractions. If the muscles in a woman's body don't tighten like a twitch, chances are that your partner is faking it. Also note that the walls and mouth of the vagina do not feel "biting".

Ultimately, sex is all about trust and intimacy. Ask yourself, which is more important, catching a partner pretending to have an orgasm or enhancing the quality of sex that is equally satisfying? If you are worried that your partner will not climax, share your worries by asking. For example, which part of the body or what kind of touch he likes. By knowing your partner's desires, it is guaranteed that he will not need to fake orgasms again.

If you've been faking it all this time, try other ways to reach climax. For example, clitoral stimulation or trying breathing techniques. Without saying what you want, your partner will not know how to bring you to the peak of pleasure.