Sex after removing the uterus, is it true that the desire to decrease?

Surgical removal of the uterus (hysterectomy) often causes various minor side effects, such as decreased sex drive, pelvic pain and around the vagina, to vaginal dryness. No doubt many women are wondering whether this procedure will affect their sex life with their partner. So, what exactly does the change in sex drive look like after removing the uterus?

Passionate sex after removing the uterus is affected by changes in the hormone estrogen

According to Dr Dana B Jacoby, a Gynecologist and Obstetrician, said that the fear of sex after removal of the uterus is very common. It's just that, the impact of the side effects of changes in sex drive after removing the uterus will depend on the type of hysterectomy that was undergone.

The removal of the uterus does not actually interfere with sexual function because sexual intercourse is not related to the uterus. Sexual intercourse takes place in the vagina, which is not much affected by the removal of the uterus, so that it does not cause any bad consequences in terms of sexual function. However, it is different if the ovaries are also removed, especially if both.

If you had a complete hysterectomy (the ovaries and uterus removed), it is very likely that this procedure will change your sexual desire. This is because the ovaries are in charge of producing the hormones testosterone and estrogen, which are important in relationships and relating to sexual arousal. Decreased estrogen levels cause vaginal dryness and vaginal tissue to thin, which makes sex painful. The pain will not only be experienced by you, but also by your partner.

However, according to Dr Sarah Choi, a Gynecologist and Laparoscopic Surgeon from Sydney Women's Endosurgery Center (SWEC), a woman whose uterus has been removed can still maintain normal sexual activity.

Tips to maintain sex drive after removing the uterus

The reason that makes you lazy to have sex after removal of the uterus can only be answered by yourself. This of course requires good and open communication.

Sex after lifting the uterus will likely make your sex drive decreased, so you may not be too excited to make love with your partner. But to be able to maintain household intimacy, even though it's not always easy to do, you and your partner must regularly communicate openly. The two of you can also ask a household counselor to evaluate your sexual problems.

Most gynecologists recommend that you resume sex after removing the uterus after six to eight weeks postoperatively, when the upper part of the vagina has healed properly. You are also advised to undergo a check-up to get the green light from your gynecologist. While waiting, there are still other ways to express your sexual desires, including hand stimulation foreplay, hugs, kisses, and massages.

In addition, sex after removing the uterus will also bring various other benefits for you, such as cessation of menstruation and minimal (even practically zero) chances of an unplanned pregnancy.