Table of contents:
- The way the partner shows feelings of not loving
- 1. Start being indifferent
- 2. Keep your distance
- 3. Physical contact is reduced
- 4. Beginning not to pay attention
- 5. Disrespect you
When you fall in love, you will feel happy, happy, and of course you want to always be intimate with your partner. However, these feelings of love can also disappear and a desire to end the relationship may arise. Not everyone expresses their desire to separate, so they show more feelings of not loving their partner through their attitude. What does your partner show when you don't love you? Find out the answer in the following review.
The way the partner shows feelings of not loving
You must be aware of every change that occurs in your partner in a relationship. However, many times you ignore it. Changes that occur in relationships must be taken into consideration; whether it leads to a better relationship or vice versa.
Here are the changes in your partner's attitude when they start not loving you, according to Stephen J. Betchen, D.S.W, a book writer and relationship consultant, reported by Psychology of Today.
1. Start being indifferent
Couples who love each other have the desire to do something with their loved ones. They definitely want to please each other's feelings. However, if there is a change in this, perhaps this could be a sign. For example, your partner may begin to withdraw from your activities and become indifferent.
Try to think again, is there any other reason that really causes changes in your partner, generally this usually happens when your partner is busy with work so that the time you normally spend with you is reduced.
2. Keep your distance
Usually, you will feel very comfortable around people you care about and want to be with them. In fact, as much as possible take the time to meet or just say hello by phone during busy times.
Now, if you begin to feel comfortable apart from him, even making excuses for not having a relationship, this could be a sign that you don't love your partner anymore.
3. Physical contact is reduced
If you have avoided physical contact with the him, think again and feel whether the love is still there or not. The reason is, making physical contact such as holding hands and stroking hair can increase intimacy and closeness in a relationship.
If you notice that your partner is no longer having the physical contact he usually has at every meeting or refuses to respond to your actions, maybe something is going on with him.
4. Beginning not to pay attention
If you still love each other, you and your partner will definitely not hesitate to pay attention to each other. But when the taste is gone, you will slowly start not caring about it.
Whether it starts from not asking for news, not answering or diverting the question. This could be a small sign of your loss of affection for him.
5. Disrespect you
Initially, you and your partner respect each other's privacy, desires and opinions. However, your partner begins to show selfishness by thinking about yourself and not appreciating what you want. Of course this can lead to debate and quarrels between you and your partner.
All the changes that occur in your partner, must raise a thousand questions in your mind. It is time for you and your partner to start discussing what is the problem and looking for a solution together.
Maybe there will be a fight and this is natural if this happens. But, it would be nice if you and your partner discuss how the continuation of your relationship with a cool head. It is up to you to decide whether you want to continue the relationship or decide to separate.
