Table of contents:
- Various ways of safe anal sex
- 1. The mattherhorn
- 2. Spooning
- 3. Backdoor planking
- Tips for safe anal sex
- Using water based lubricants
- Using condoms
- Do it slowly
Compared to vaginal sex, anal sex is rather rare. The reason is, having anal sex raises a lot of worries and fears in itself for many people. For those of you who are curious and want to try it with a partner, there are various ways anal sex can be done in many positions. The following is the review.
Various ways of safe anal sex
1. The mattherhorn
This one position is done by placing a pile of pillows in front of the woman's chest. Later, he will bend over the pillow with his hand on the pile of pillows. This position is done while kneeling with your feet hip-width apart.
The man then positions himself behind the woman in a half-standing position. Compared to doggy style, this position makes you and your partner stick to each other more and doesn't feel sore because of the pillow. This position also allows the man to stimulate the clitoris easily; either with your fingers or a vibrator.
2. Spooning
The spooning position does not only apply to vaginal penetration. Spooning can also be done when you and your partner want to have anal sex. The method is similar, you both need to lie on your side to the same side. Then, the partner will slowly insert his penis from the back.
According to Jessica Drake, a sexual health expert from the United States, this position can relieve the pressure that comes from the two bodies. In addition, this position is also very suitable for stimulating the clitoris so that your partner can orgasm simultaneously.
3. Backdoor planking
Tyomi Morgan, a sex expert from the United States, says you can try anal sex with a backdoor planking position. This one technique is done with a woman lying on her stomach and a man behind her.
When lying on his stomach, the woman needs to prop up a pillow just above her stomach. That way, the position of the buttocks will be slightly lifted. To make it easier for a man to insert his penis, a woman needs to spread her legs so that they are in a position like straddling from behind.
Tips for safe anal sex
Whatever position and method of anal sex you try, don't forget to pay attention to safety and comfort during intercourse. The reason is, anal sex has a high risk of transmitting venereal diseases if done carelessly. This is because the lining of the skin in the anal area is very thin and can tear easily. Therefore, the spread of venereal disease from an infected partner is very likely.
To keep anal sex safe and enjoyable, you should do the following:
Using water based lubricants
Water-based lubricants help reduce painful friction in the anal area. Unlike the vagina, the anus does not have a natural lubricant to wet its surface. Lubricants make the surface of the anus more slippery, making it easier to pass.
So, why not oil-based ones? This is because the oil can damage the latex material in the condom. Therefore, oil-based lubricants are not sufficient to protect you from the risk of venereal disease.
On the market, there are special lubricants that are sold for anal sex. This lubricant contains benzocaine which can reduce anal sensitivity. With this special lubricant, penetration becomes more comfortable and pain is much less.
Using condoms
Make no mistake, condoms are not only used to prevent pregnancy. However, this one item is also used to reduce the risk of transmitting various venereal diseases. Use latex condoms that are the right size. The goal is to keep you comfortable and protected from various unwanted health problems.
Do it slowly
Anal sex needs to be done slowly. Take your time because the skin around the anus is very thin, sensitive, and can tear easily. Therefore, just enjoy the process slowly without haste.
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