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Some people have different sexual fantasies. You can say that sexual fantasy is one of the keys to making sex more enjoyable even though you have been married for a long time. Where do your sexual fantasies actually come from?
Having sexual fantasies is normal, really
Fantasy sex is perfectly normal, even if you are masturbating and having sex with your partner. In fact, this can make sex sessions hotter and orgasms great for both.
If you and your partner feel comfortable and don't hurt each other in practicing your sexual fantasies, then you are having normal sex fantasies. As long as your partner is willing to do it without coercion, this is also normal.
However, realizing sexual fantasies in a partner cannot be done carelessly. You need to talk to your partner first, so that your partner can also enjoy your sexual fantasies.
Having sexual fantasies, is not an indication that someone is abnormal or cheating on their partner. Fantasy is a mental experience that arises from imagination or it can be stimulated by reading, painting, photos, etc.
Generally, people fantasize when having sexual relations with their partner, while masturbating, or even when they are not having sexual activity.
Where do sexual fantasies come from?
Sexual fantasies are sometimes needed to increase someone's sex drive. Sex fantasies can be in the form of imagining a person you idolize, a movie player, or other people who successfully stimulate your sexual arousal. However, this doesn't mean cheating, you know.
So, what is the source of your favorite sexual fantasies? Has it come from your previous sexual experiences? Is it from something you see in movies or in the popular media? Or is it from another place? It turns out that everyone's sexual fantasies can come from several different sources.
Here are the biggest influences on the appearance of a person's sexual fantasies, the most common. This is the result of a survey of four thousand Americans.
1. Own imagination
2. Something seen in pornographic films
3. Previous sexual experiences that occurred as adults
4. Unexplained spontaneous sexual drive
5. Something that is read in a book
6. Previous sexual experiences since childhood or adolescence
7. Something seen in movies or on television
8. Missed sexual opportunities
9. Conversation with a partner
10. Unfulfilled wishes
11. Non-sexual childhood experiences
Sexual fantasies can come from a variety of sources. There are even some that appear spontaneously without being planned. Others may not know where these sexual fantasies come from.
There are many factors that influence the content of your sexual fantasies in ways you may not be aware of, from culture to evolutionary history to your personality.
This is normal, because you can't always answer why you want these things, sexually or otherwise.
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