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There are various foreign sex terms that are less familiar to our ears, but maybe you or your partner intend or have done one of them. The two most frequently discussed sex terms are kinky and fetish. Do you know what the difference is?
What is that kinky?
The origin of the word kinky is kink which means an oddity, oddity, unusual thing, or something unnatural. In the context of sexual activity, to put it simplykinky is an unusual way of having sex and involves unusual sexual behavior.
For example, all this time people only knew that sex should be done by two people missionary style (man on top and woman on bottom) on the bed in the bedroom. Well kinky is the unconventional alternative. An example is BDSM sex which involves both submissive and dominant behavior, sex roleplay (role playing) complete with costumes and scenarios, to masochism sex which involves violence.
Several other sexual activities including sexkinky is sex voyeurism and exhibitionism which is usually done in public places or open places, also sex with groups of more than two people such as threesomeor orgy.According to Healthline, 10 percent of women and 18 percent of men in the world like to have sex even with more than 3 people.
Then, what is it fetish?
Fetish is an unusual form of sexual desire and can only be fulfilled by doing one specific thing to achieve satisfaction.Fetish it can be any particular action or everyday object that excites a person, from what seems normal to the most bizarre that no one else has thought of.
For example, you will be more excited to see the partner's leg high heels when making love. There are also people who get excited when they see their partner sweating after exercising. One of fetish the most common is licking the big toe (toe fetish). There are also people out there who get excited about inanimate objects like tables or chairs.
Fetish is part of sexual fantasies. According to psychologist and sex therapist Shannon Chavez, fetish generally develop during a person's life. Whether a person's fetish is normal or not will depend on the object, its intensity, and the way it is fulfilled. For example, if after being told that your partner wants to be involved in your sex fetish and without the risk of hurting him, this sexual behavior is still considered normal.
However, a fetish can be called a disorder or disorder if it violates existing norms. For example, interest in making love with corpses or animals, or to fellow humans but through coercion.
What is the difference?
Simply put, fetish is a part of kinky sex. Kinky is an unusual creative act during lovemaking, while a fetish is an unusual thing that raises the desire to make love.
But even though they are equally unusual, the purpose of sex kinky and fetish the truth remains the same, namely to achieve the satisfaction of making love for all parties involved and must be done on a consensual basis (both agree).
It is important to discuss any sexual fantasies with your partner. If you want to realize your sex fantasies, it's good to discuss it with your partner first. Keep creating boundaries and rules that you must obey when having sex. Don't let sex endanger both of you.
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