Already have a partner but still like to masturbate, is it normal?

Masturbation is closely related to the sexual activity of people single. That may be why you are so amazed and confused about how to behave when you find out that your partner still likes to masturbate until now. Not infrequently many are hurt because they may think they are unable to satisfy their partner in bed, so he chooses to masturbate. Others may think that masturbation is the same as cheating, especially if the partner is imagining other people in their sexual fantasies.

Actually, is it normal for couples who still like to masturbate alone?

Couples still like to masturbate alone is natural, really!

There are various reasons for someone to masturbate. Maybe they masturbate to learn to know and love their own bodies more. Single people may masturbate more frequently to vent their pent up sexual desire while not having a partner. For people who are still single, solo sex can also be used as an alternative to safe sex to avoid transmission of venereal diseases from one-night love or multiple partners.

Then, what is the reason for someone who is already in a pair still likes to masturbate? Some people may masturbate for its healthy benefits. Regular masturbation helps women strengthen vaginal muscles, reduce menstrual pain, and prevent the risk of heart attack. Meanwhile, for men, masturbation is useful for improving sperm quality, reducing the risk of prostate cancer, and preventing premature ejaculation.

Others feel that they still need to masturbate even when they are paired to get rid of daily stress and help sleep soundly. Masturbation can increase the production of endorphins which can cause a feeling of pleasure and calm. For some people, masturbation can be used as an alternative sexual activity in an attempt to prevent pregnancy.

Masturbation is also beneficial for your sexual satisfaction and your partner

Several studies have shown that people who like to masturbate can experience more sexual satisfaction. When you masturbate, you will learn about the ins and outs of yourself and learn to be more observant to measure your ability to withstand orgasm.

If a man is more able to last longer in bed, this helps to please the partner. Meanwhile, women masturbate as a way of learning to reach orgasm more easily. The benefits of each of these masturbation can ultimately help improve the quality of your sexual relationship.

Masturbation alone can also be used as a foreplay session as a way to increase sexual arousal before sex.

Then how do you understand a partner who masturbates?

Do not suddenly be disappointed and angry when you catch your partner still likes to masturbate.

Talk and be honest about how you feel when you find out that your partner is masturbating alone.
Find out why he masturbates, but ask when you're not feeling emotional. Knowing the answers might make you feel better and relieved.
After knowing the answer, try to accept that masturbation is something that is normal and can be done with people who have a partner or not.
In addition, you also need to observe whether masturbation by your partner affects both of your sex life.
If frequent masturbation makes your partner neglect their work or even becomes an excuse not to have sexual relations with you, it may need to be discussed more deeply.