Table of contents:
- The research said, women prefer men who sell expensive
- Conversely, men are attracted to friendly women
- Depending on the situation, the attitude of selling expensive does not always work
- An overly selling attitude can indicate a fear of starting a relationship
He said, the PDKT period, aka the approach, was more beautiful than the dating period. There are many tricks performed by women and men to attract potential partners, one of which is by pretending to be expensive. Yes, you may also do this method so you can captivate the dreamer's heart. The reason is, many believe that men or women who "sell hard" are more attractive.
However, it turns out that men and women are not the same, some are more interested in potential partners who are selling dearly and some are not. So, which one prefers to sell dearly during the PDKT period?
The research said, women prefer men who sell expensive
A new study was conducted on 51 women and 50 men from the University of Central Israel. This study was conducted on single men and women aged 19-31 years.
The study examined the participants who followed online dating chat. From this study, it is known that women are more interested and respond to men who are not very friendly.
According to the women who participated in the study, foreign men who seemed to be selling expensive were more attractive than men who gave an exaggerated response.
Men who respond excessively and are too friendly at the beginning of their introduction are considered to have bad intentions, just looking for attention, manipulative, and not serious in their relationship.
Therefore, many women prefer men who are a little stiff when they first meet and during the PDKT period. Even in this study it is known that the nature of men who sell expensive can arouse female arousal.
Conversely, men are attracted to friendly women
Well, in contrast to women, men actually like women who are friendly and open when they are at the beginning of their introduction. Women who sell high prices and "push" relationships are not taken seriously and do not appeal to him.
This is evidenced in a survey conducted on men who use the application online dating.
As many as 80 percent of the men who participated admitted that they preferred women who were open, friendly, and caring from the first time they met. These traits are some of the main criteria for moving into a more serious relationship.
Depending on the situation, the attitude of selling expensive does not always work
A psychologist, revealed that this trick of selling expensive and tug-of-war can sometimes work, depending on the condition of each relationship.
Many studies have concluded that pretentious sales can work when you and your partner are already committed or at least a little bit attracted to them. The reason is, when you feel you need each other, the tug of war can be a spice in a relationship.
If you and your partner need each other, then when someone walks away, one of them will try to catch up and make the relationship get better again.
An overly selling attitude can indicate a fear of starting a relationship
According to psychologists from IDC Herzliya in Israel and the University of Rochester in New York, saying that showing a high-priced attitude during the PDKT period does not always make the relationship end smoothly.
Some people use this selling attitude to protect themselves from being afraid of starting a relationship. Most of those who were pretentious at the start of the relationship indicated that they were afraid of getting hurt and failing during the relationship.
If this is the reason you are pretending to be selling dearly, you should first make peace with your fears and discuss this with your partner. That way, your partner will understand your condition and feelings at that time.
