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Common mistakes during sex include rushing and pushing yourself too hard to have an orgasm. Chasing sex can indeed make you excited and excited. However, the satisfaction tends to be momentary, it won't be felt for a long time. Too desperate to reach a climax also makes sex less enjoyable.
If you make these two mistakes often enough, it's time you tried new sex techniques from ancient Indian civilization. This technique is known as tantric sex.
What is tantric sex?
Tantric sex is a combination of meditation and sex techniques. So don't imagine that sex will guarantee an orgasm or leave you breathless because it's so exciting. This sex technique, which has been known for 5,000 years, focuses on a slow, mindful and balanced sexual experience.
The trick that needs to be mastered is to balance the masculine energy of men and the feminine energy of women. To be able to reach this balance point, of course you cannot be in a hurry. You and your partner need to focus and calm down. With a mind that focuses on intimate moments with your partner, your sexual experience will become richer and more meaningful.
How to have tantric sex
Interested in trying tantric sex? Relax, here is a beginner's guide to lovemaking with full tantric awareness.
1. First of all, you have to build a strong sexual energy with your partner. We recommend that you sit face to face with your partner. For men, lap your partner as comfortably as possible. Try to keep your eyes meeting each other.
2. Once comfortable enough in the position, breathe in calmly together. Take a deep breath from your nose, hold it for two seconds, and exhale through your mouth. You and your partner should do this in a harmonious rhythm while staring at each other. This breathing technique will help you both relax and feel more relaxed.
3. To be more intimate, you can say romantic words (but not rags) to your partner. For example, "I really love you," or, "I really like seeing your gentle gaze."
4. Slowly, gently touch your partner's hand or face with the tips of your fingers. This will awaken your partner's sense of touch and make him shudder. From there, tease your partner by lightly touching the area around the nipple or sex organs. However, don't immediately stimulate in the area. Let the "bear" sensation raise your energy.
5. Kiss lovingly partner with slightly open lips. While holding your lips open while kissing, take a deep breath and exhale through your mouth. Let each other's breaths meet and intertwine. After that, close your lips very slowly and kiss your partner's lips as usual.
6. Continue this gentle lovemaking session with mutual massages. Start by massaging your partner's shoulders, back, arms and legs. Then, using the gentle pressure possible, massage your partner's sensitive areas. For example, the neck, inner thighs, buttocks, chest, and penis or vagina. Remember, don't be in a hurry. Repeat the same movement in the partner's sensitive area many times.
7. Before penetration, you and your partner can enjoy intimacy by rubbing or touching each other's genitals as slowly as possible. You will feel the mounting anticipation. This is what is called sexual energy.
8. Finally, you can make love with a romantic sex position. Try to keep you and your partner face to face, for example with a missionary sex position or a woman on the man's lap. While penetrating, don't forget to keep breathing at the same time. No need to worry about orgasms. The reason is, tantric sex is not specifically designed so that it can climax. But so that partners can be aware of each other's touch, movement, and breath each.
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