Table of contents:
- Why do many women leave their partners even though they are still in love?
- Try to be completely present, not just physically
There are many reasons that make a woman leave her partner even though she is very much in love. Not only a matter of love, there are many important things that should be fulfilled in a relationship or marriage. So, what makes a woman able to leave her partner even though she is still in love?
Why do many women leave their partners even though they are still in love?
There are so many problems in a relationship that a woman can leave her partner. However, there is one big reason that makes many women dare to leave the partner they love, namely the presence of their partner as a whole.
Justice Schanfarber, a marriage and romance counselor in Canada, said that women who feel that their husbands or partners are never there when they are needed prefer to leave rather than continue the relationship. Too busy with work, busy playing games, spending time with friends, and never spending quality time together are one of the causes of cracks in relationships, both dating and marriage.
The presence of a man who is needed by women is not only physically, but also in heart and mind. A woman can feel when her partner is fully present with her and when only her physicality is there as a formality. For women, presence is the most important thing that is needed in a relationship.
Try to be completely present, not just physically
If all this time you have only been physically present, try to fix it from now on. Try to provide a complete presence for your partner from your heart, feelings, and thoughts. Being present in a heart and feeling means that you really pour out all your feelings of love only on your partner, not on other people outside the relationship like your ex for example.
In addition, you also need to be present in your mind when you are with your partner. Being present means that when you and your partner meet, your mind is really focused on it. Focus on listening to the story and share in the emotions your partner feels, instead of playing cellphones or playingonline game.
Yes, women can discern when a partner is fully present and when not. Maybe you've never realized it all this time, but your partner may feel it and keep it too long. As a result, if this feeling of loneliness continues, your partner may leave you even though their love is still there.
Not only through in-person meetings, your presence can also be felt even though only by telephone. Therefore, you need to learn a lot to continue to present yourself completely to your partner.
Remember, this does not mean that your partner cannot be separated from you and that you have to be there for them all the time. The key is to be balanced and not half-hearted when it comes to spending time with your partner.
If you don't have a lot of time each day, try to spend just five minutes actually being with your partner. Try to really talk and spend quality time alone and listening to each other.
