Table of contents:
- Ghosting
- 2. Don't stalk or try to find him again
- 3. Keep yourself busy
- 4. Disconnect contact
- 5. Find other happiness
The heart must feel sick when you realize you've been left by a crush for no apparent reason even though you are in love. There was no smoke, no fire, suddenly the crush disappeared without news and could not be contacted at all as if he had vanished into the earth. Although bitter to hear, this may be a sign that you have been hit ghosting. The term may sound foreign, but it's true ghosting is no longer a new phenomenon. Ghosting very common in people who are still in the PDKT stage.
So, how do you deal with this "hanging" situation?
Ghosting
Just disappearing without a word is not a laudable attitude, especially if you are so excited and hopeful. Therefore, the first step to letting go of this feeling is to let go and admit to yourself that he hasghosting You.
Not all things you can force to know the answer. But remember, when "realizing" yourself that maybe the he is no longer interested in you, do not make you look down on yourself. Know that the he is not the best for you.
2. Don't stalk or try to find him again
Because you don't accept being left just like that, you think about finding out the him in various ways. For example, by browsing his social media, following him to work, or even asking his friends where he is.
Stop! Don't ever do that if you want move on. It is very difficult indeed, but you must be sure you can get through these chaotic feelings and thoughts. Stalking only makes you more sick and worse. Especially when you know that he already has another partner.
3. Keep yourself busy
One tip move on which is effective in healing yourself as a victim ghosting is to keep yourself busy. The busyness of everyday life can make you do not have time to think about the him. Therefore, look for busyness, activities and useful activities.
4. Disconnect contact
If you are ghosting your crush, it's best to stop all attempts to make contact again. Your efforts will end in vain. People who decide to run away do so because they don't want to be called or seen again.
So "reciprocate" the treatment by blocking all lines of contact between you and him to avoid instinct curious which makes it difficult to move on.
5. Find other happiness
Finally, it's time to find your own happiness. After going through sad days, it's good to forget about that person and turn over a new leaf. Set aside time for vacations or spending more time with friends and family. Find genuine affection from those who will likely never leave you.
Try not to get the topic of your conversation solely on your ex-crush. That way, you can stay focused on "healing" yourself from old wounds.
You don't need to be sad for long, because there are still many “fish in the sea”. Think of it as the Creator's secret way to save you from the wrong "match" and give you a second chance to find a new mate.
