Table of contents:
- Signs that your partner is cheating on you
- 1. Your partner appears to be hiding something
- 2. Check the cellphone at any time
- 3. Often mention someone's name
- 4. Your partner begins to withdraw
- 5. Likes to criticize you
Cheating heart or emotional cheating is in fact more difficult to predict and resolve than cheating physically. If physical cheating means that your partner is completely ambivalent and is in a relationship with other people, cheating on your heart means that your partner has feelings for other people. Even though the partner is not actually in a relationship with the person.
Generally, having an affair often starts with friendship. Apart from being friends, the factor of often meeting face to face every day can also be the reason why the heart is so attached. Besides being unpredictable, this type of cheating is also difficult to admit for those who experience it. So, what are the characteristics of your partner or even you who are having an affair? Come on, see the explanation below.
Signs that your partner is cheating on you
Here are some signs you need to be aware of:
1. Your partner appears to be hiding something
This first sign of having an affair can be guessed if your partner is seen hiding something. Maybe you can find out if you are married or almost every time you meet, yes.
Abby Rodman, a relationship expert, reveals several traits that can be caught. For example, suppose your partner starts to grab hold of you cellphone wherever it goes, or it starts changing password cellphone without you knowing. Indirectly, your partner is starting to cover up something he doesn't want you to know.
2. Check the cellphone at any time
Today, there is no need for face to face to have an affair. Wide variety of social media and applications chat has become a separate place to accommodate those who are sharing their hearts.
You have to be on your guard if at any time your partner becomes attentive cellphoneeven when you are with your partner. Because now with social media, other relationships are easy to hide.
3. Often mention someone's name
Even if it's just your heart that's cheating on you, this can unconsciously spread to other aspects of your life, you know. You can pick up on the cheating move if your partner has started "guerrilla" carrying the names of other people in your relationship.
It could also be that your partner is comparing you with other people. Usually not once or twice this happens. If you have this, you should question the purpose and whether something happened between the partner and the other person.
4. Your partner begins to withdraw
This one characteristic of having an affair must be watched out for. Because usually this one feature of cheating is arguably in a dangerous stage. So watch for signs that your partner is starting to pull away and is starting to behave differently.
For example, when your partner always talks about his daily life with you, and now starts to be quiet and lazy to talk. Or your partner is getting lazy to discuss something with you. This condition, usually occurs when your partner has received emotional attention from other people.
5. Likes to criticize you
In addition to withdrawing emotionally or physically, your partner may also start criticizing you over and over again. Lisa Ryan, an expert on infidelity states the reason for this condition. It can be said that your partner is comparing because he has started to enter into his fantasies with other people.
It should also be noted, however, that your partner may appear irritated and angry if you ask questions or badmouth someone he might like emotionally.
