5 The risks of having sex before marriage & bull; hello healthy

Having sex before marriage is very common in many countries around the world, including Indonesia. According to data from the Ministry of Health's Infodatin of the Republic of Indonesia in 2012, there were as many as 14.6% of men aged 20-14 years and 4.5% of men aged 15-19 who had had premarital sex. Meanwhile, for women aged 20-24 years there were 1.8% and 0.7% aged 15-19 years. From the survey, the most reason for premarital sexual relations for men was because of curiosity or curiosity. And for women it is forced by a partner. Without us knowing it, having sex before marriage has its own risks for your life. What are the risks? For the full answer, let's look at the following.

The risks of having sex before marriage

1. You get rumors and a bad reputation

Even though we are in a very developed world, the traditions and morals that have been taught by society and parents are still ingrained in us. That's why having sex before marriage is considered a bad thing. And when a person does this action, he can have a bad reputation. This can affect relationships between people at work or in personal life.

2. You feel less confident and lose trust

Relationships between partners are primarily caused by a sense of admiration or love, and those feelings may be triggered by similarities between the two. These relationships are sometimes led by sexual desire or lust. So, when you have sex with a partner, then you have met each other's needs. And it can make you lack confidence in your partner, because you think that he might be looking for someone else to have a different sexual relationship.

3. You will feel the emotional effect

And in the religious community, a woman who has sex before marriage is considered sinful, and she can even be rejected by her family, society, and religion. So, for a woman who does it, her heart may feel broken, ashamed, insecure, depressed, etc.

4. Your partner may lose sexual desire

Some women claim that having sex before marriage is a way to get a man to commit to the relationship. However, it turns out that many people have sex only because of their lust. Also, once you start having sex, it will become a natural habit that may become inevitable and end up having it at least two or three times a week.

Activities that are too frequent like this will not only destroy intimacy, but will also thwart the desire to enter the next stage of the relationship of the same woman. If it turns out that your relationship progresses to marriage, your partner may experience problems, such as losing an erection, having sex earlier than usual, and several other similar problems related to sexual intercourse. And it can affect your marriage as well as your future with your partner.

5. You are at risk for sexually transmitted diseases

One disease that cannot be cured is HIV, this virus can kill millions of people around the world, and the main cause is having sex before marriage, especially if the person is doing it with many people. This includes women who are addicted to the feeling of orgasm and always have sex with multiple men, or men who go to prostitutes and have sex with multiple women. Please note that this disease can end your life just because you are in contact with someone who has contracted the virus.