Table of contents:
- 1. Si drama queen always want to be the main topic in every conversation
- 2. Every time you tell a story, start with an exclamation word
- 3. Whatever it is, always be dramatized
- 4. You don't stop gossiping
- 5. You hold grudges
Maybe you resent people who like to exaggerate things. Usually people who have this habit are called the nickname si drama queen.
Yes, drama queen or a drama queen whose life was filled with dramatization. It's annoying to meet someone like that. But wait, are you sure you are not one of them? Maybe without you knowing it, you are also being called drama queen by your friends.
Do not believe? This is a sign that you are among the people drama queen.
1. Si drama queen always want to be the main topic in every conversation
Gathering with friends is indeed a place to confide in, exchange ideas, and listen to one another. But not if you are drama queenInstead, you are busy telling stories that are happening in your life regardless of the stories that your friends have.
Still can't believe it if you are drama queen? Try to remember your friends' stories, if you don't remember them clearly or don't even remember them at all, this indicates that you are the drama queen.
What to do? Make it a habit to ask your friend's story, before you tell what happened to you. but don't just ask questions, listen and listen to all the stories he has to say and say what you think about the incident. Try to be as natural as possible and do not make it up.
2. Every time you tell a story, start with an exclamation word
Each time si drama queen starting the story, it must be preceded by exclamation words like "OMG" or "Geez!" etc. Do you frequent this? You could be the drama queen.
What to do? Try to be calm every time you start a story. Replace all of these exclamations with less dramatic sentences. Set your voice to sound calm and begin to slowly tell the story.
3. Whatever it is, always be dramatized
Maybe you are not aware, but try to remember again how you told your experience or story to the people around you? A drama queen often made himself the center of attention, even thinking that the problem at hand was the single most important problem. You feel that your problem is the biggest problem and there is no match for it. If you do, you really are drama queen for exaggerating the problem.
What to do? Think again, whether your problem is proportional to the problems faced by the people who are on the battlefield there? Or is your problem related to someone's life and death? If not, try to look at it from a different perspective. Everyone has their own problems.
4. You don't stop gossiping
Gossiping and gossiping does look fun and there is a sense of satisfaction in doing it for some people. However, gossip is no longer fun if it is too much. A story that comes out of the mouth drama queen no longer resembling the original incident, a lot of 'spices' were added to it to make it even more interesting. Again, you're just exaggerating the problem.
What to do? Stop it. The only way to change the habit is for you to have your own quit button. You have to really recognize that it is no good to tell stories that are not true and make other people's problems worse. After all, you have your own problems to solve, don't you?
5. You hold grudges
One of the characteristics of drama queen is to never forget and hold a grudge only for its own benefit. It is difficult for him to forget and let go of bad events and always considers himself the worst because of it. In fact, this is still just an exaggeration.
What to do? Every life there are problems and unpleasant events, whether it's because of the actions of those closest to you or not. The most important thing is how to deal with all these bad things. don't think that if you are the only person who is experiencing the loss of having a problem, everyone on the other side of the world feels it too. Try to be at peace with your heart and mind.
