Table of contents:
- Where does female ejaculatory fluid come from (squirting)?
- Can all women squirt?
- How to make a woman orgasm to squirting
- 1. Exercise your pelvic floor muscles
- 2. Pee first
- 3. Stimulate your sex drive
- 4. Play your G-spot
- 5. Relax, don't force it
Squirting, aka female ejaculation, is a clear, whitish discharge that gushes from the bladder opening (urethra) in the vagina after receiving sexual stimulation.Squirting allegedly multiplying the sexual experience of women and considered by men as clear evidence of arousal and success in bringing their partners to orgasm. How to squirting?
Where does female ejaculatory fluid come from (squirting)?
Squirting is female ejaculatory fluid produced in Skene's glands - glands in the vagina that function similarly to the male prostate - which drain through the bladder, not from the vaginal opening. This fluid is neither urine nor the natural lubricant for the vaginal wall because it contains the typical characteristics of prostate plasma originating from the Skene gland, which more or less functions as a woman's prostate gland.
According to experts, the process of female ejaculation can have two possibilities. First, during sexual activity or stimulation, this fluid can mix with vaginal fluids and male pre-ejaculatory fluids that may be present during penetration. This process results in a thicker, milky white squirting fluid, but in less amount, similar to male semen.
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Meanwhile, some other women can experience what is known as reverse ejaculation. This is a condition in which when your vaginal muscles clench post-orgasm, causing your ejaculatory fluid from Skene's glands to flow back into the bladder, mix with the urine so that it has a more fluid and watery texture, as well as more in volume, before finally being "shot out." Back to the real world - like bedwetting.
Either way, experts seem to agree that women's ejaculatory fluid lacks (or is very minimal) the urea, creatinine, or uric acid commonly found in urine.
Can all women squirt?
Female ejaculation is usually the result of continued stimulation of the G-spot, an erotic area whose existence is disputed but believed to be located within the internal structures of the clitoris. There is no doubt that pressing on the G-spot area will affect Skene's glands, which some say is the source of female ejaculation.
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Everyone who has female reproductive organs has the physical ability to squirt. But the truth is, regular ejaculation is not something that common. Like the vagina, every woman's sexual experience is unique and will differ from one another.
Some women have experienced squirting once in their life, but never repeat the same thing again. Some others show routine ejaculation experiences. There are also dozens of stories reported by many women that they need to be able to squirt - which ends up seeing their bodies as abnormal because they can't / never ejaculate. In fact, the exact percentage of women who ejaculate is unclear.
However, vaginal stimulation of any kind (G-spot or clitoris) can lead a woman to intense sexual pleasure, even if this does not always result in a sweet ejaculation.
How to make a woman orgasm to squirting
If squirting is something you want to achieve, here are some fun ways you can do it.
1. Exercise your pelvic floor muscles
The best way you can do to get to squirting is pelvic muscle exercises, aka Kegel exercises. These muscles wrap around the pelvis, and have been linked to an increased chance of reaching orgasms, stronger orgasms, and ejaculation. You can find your pelvic muscles when you urinate.
To practice it, try to stop the flow of urine while you are urinating, before you have completely finished urinating. You may feel a sensation like being attracted. After that, release the muscle slowly. Repeat as many times as possible throughout the day.
2. Pee first
Whenever you are trying to squirt, it's best to pee first. A G-spot orgasm feels like an urge to urinate, which may be followed by a discharge. If you believe that your bladder is empty, you will be able to relax and enjoy the sensation more.
3. Stimulate your sex drive
You have to be aroused to ejaculate. So just do what you normally do to get aroused. For example, by watching pornographic films or reading erotica novels. Don't put anything directly into the vagina. You must first "get wet".
Apart from painful penetration when the vagina is dry, vaginal stimulation is the most important way to get you to orgasm, not to create arousal. You can start by playing near your vagina or playing with your other arousal points. This requires complete patience.
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4. Play your G-spot
Female ejaculation is closely related to the G-spot, which is located on the upper wall of your vagina. To achieve this, Dr Jennifer Berman, sexual health expert, urologist and female sexual medicine specialist, reported by the Medical Daily, suggests starting stimulation using your longer finger so that it can better navigate the inner area of the vagina. First, wash your hands. Then, prop yourself up on the bed with your legs bent and wide apart, and tuck the pillow under your hips.
Cover your fingers with lubricant and insert them into your vagina with your palms facing up. Your G-spot is right on the upper wall of your vagina in the middle between the vaginal opening and the cervix. The G-spot feels rough and rough like the surface of a sponge or walnut. If you can't reach deep enough with your fingers, use a vibrator with a curved tip or your partner's extended hand.
G-spot stimulation The G-spot is more effective when using pressure than a lot of complicated maneuvers, so try only rubbing your finger or sex toy in small circles with a sufficient and increasing amount of pressure.
5. Relax, don't force it
How do you know if you've been squirting? Unfortunately, unless you gush a lot, almost like bed wetting, it can be hard to tell. You may actually ejaculate, but the volume is not enough to really show. Researchers have also reported that female ejaculatory fluid is often confused with vaginal lubrication or male semen, if any.
On the other hand, if you are the reverse ejaculate type, chances are that your squirting fluid returns to your bladder to mix in the urine and falls back down as the flow of urine that you pass away after sex is over.
For many women, squirting is an elusive goal that we'd be happy to try if we hadn't been there before. You now have all the information you need to train, train, train for the coveted squirting experience.
But one important piece of advice: too strong try different ways squirting it can actually be a weapon to eat, sir. Remember that the key to great sex is a relaxed body and mind without a burden. Being persistent in achieving a specific goal (ejaculation) can be so frustrating that it can cause you to lose your mood and sexual arousal associated with self-confidence and enthusiasm.
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