Table of contents:
- Importancefingerings (inserting finger rectally) before anal sex
- How to do fingerings?
- Are there any risks to inserting a finger into the anus before anal sex?
Tempted to try anal sex with a partner? Wait a minute. Anal sex should not be done haphazardly. In order to be both delicious and safe, free from risk, don't miss itfingerings aka inserting a finger into the rectum (anus) as a foreplay before starting anal sex. Why? Are there any risks in not doing this?
Importancefingerings (inserting finger rectally) before anal sex
Fingering is inserting a finger into the hole of the partner's intimate organs, be it the vagina or rectum (anus). The goal is not only to stimulate, but also to increase enjoyment during sex.
You see, the anus has two muscle rings (sphincters) on the outside and inside to control the opening and closing of the opening. It turns out that when these two rings are stimulated, it can also further increase arousal and sensation before starting anal sex.
But other than for enjoyment, fingerings during anal sex as well as at the same time to ensure that both of you have a smooth, successful sex without the risk of problems. Why?
Many people immediately insert the penis into their partner's anus without being straightforward. In fact, the sphincter muscle ring has a strong grip. The anal canal is also designed just for Secrete something, not for inclusion something.
When later the hole is "forced" into the penis without being loosened and smoothed through first fingerings, doing so will risk damaging or irritating the lining of the anus which is very thin.
If the inner lining of the anus is damaged, the wound can provide an entry point for infectious germs to invade the body. Including bacteria and viruses that cause sexually transmitted diseases.
How to do fingerings?
Before starting fingerings For anal sex, make sure the person who is going to be inserting the finger in the rectum (either yourself or your partner) has been washing their hands thoroughly with soap. This includes making sure your fingernails are short and clean. Otherwise, inserting a long-nailed finger into the rectum can tear the thin lining of the anus.
Then, it's a good idea to have a bowel movement 45 minutes before sex. This is done so that the anal canal is clean and free of dirt that may be stored.
As a first step, first grease the area around the anal canal and fingers with a little lubricant so that the insertion process is smooth. After that, massage the outer area of the anus in a circular motion starting from a small circle to a large circle with the index or other finger. When touched and this part hardens, meaning that the sedag sphincter contracts in response.
Afterward, stimulate the outer anal muscle by pressing it for a few seconds. Then, push your finger upward slightly so that it is in. It is important to remember not to move your finger too fast. Do it slowly and be gentle as you insert your finger in the rectum.
Once you and your partner are comfortable and no longer in pain, it's time to insert your penis and have some real anal sex. Don't forget to add lubricant every now and then when it looks like it's getting dry.
Are there any risks to inserting a finger into the anus before anal sex?
Reporting from the Planned Parenthood page, inserting a finger rectally is relatively safe as long as it is done properly.
Even so, the risk of irritation and infection from anal sex is always there. Then it's best to use a finger condom or gloves if you want fingerings during anal sex. Use latex or nitrile gloves. However, make sure you and your partner are not allergic to latex, yes!
Finger condoms or gloves can help protect you and your partner from the risk of injury. Gloves also help block germs that are under the nails from getting into the rectum.
After you finish anal sex, don't forget to wash your hands and your intimate organs together too!
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