Table of contents:
- Tantrums in children are normal, but know the limits
- 1. Has a frequent tantrum
- 2. Raged for a long time
- 3. When throwing tantrums, repeatedly make physical contact with other people
- 4. Angry to the point of hurting yourself
- 5. Have not been able to calm yourself down
- What to do if the child has this abnormal tantrum sign?
- First, start with yourself and your family.
- Consult a child psychologist
Tantrums in children are conditions when children release emotions by tantrums, anger, crying loudly, and slamming things. Usually, tantrums occur when he has two strong emotions, namely anger and excessive sadness. This condition is actually normal in children, it can even be considered as part of the development process. According to Belden, a child development psychologist, said that every child is very likely to experience tantrums. However, if it is excessive, tantrums can be a sign that there is a problem with your little one's development.
Tantrums in children are normal, but know the limits
1. Has a frequent tantrum
Children who are not yet in school will spend more time at home with their family members. Note if he experiences tantrums about 10 to 20 times a month at home, or more than 5 tantrums a day that occur over several days. If your baby experiences these signs, chances are he is at risk for serious mental problems.
2. Raged for a long time
Children with tantrums in a short duration can make parents feel dizzy, especially if the child throws tantrums for a long time, for example, up to 20 or even 30 minutes. If the child does have mental disorders, the duration of the tantrum will be longer and constant compared to normal children.
For example, in a normal child, he will tantrum in the first 1 hour and the next tantrum period is only 20-30 seconds. However, if your little one has problems with his mental health, he will go on a rampage for 25 minutes and do not stop. So the next time he goes berserk it will take 25 minutes or so.
3. When throwing tantrums, repeatedly make physical contact with other people
It is not uncommon for your little one to experience tantrums to kick or even hit those closest to them. Tantrums in children who are not normal can be assessed by looking at their behavior when they throw tantrums.
If you have often made physical contact such as hitting, pinching or even kicking the people around him, then this is beyond normal limits. Even in some cases, families prefer to protect themselves because of the difficulty in reducing the child's anger. Be aware of this, because this could be a sign that your little one has a problem with him.
4. Angry to the point of hurting yourself
If your little one gets angry and throws a tantrum that he injures himself, then that is a sign that he may be experiencing certain mental health problems. Some children with major depression tend to bite, scratch, hit their head against the wall, and even kick various people around them when they are angry.
5. Have not been able to calm yourself down
Most tantrum "episodes" are intended because your child wants more attention from you whether it's because they are hungry, tired, or want a certain object. Your little one tends to be unable to calm himself down after letting out his emotions. So, you are required to be able to calm your child after experiencing tantrums.
However, it must be remembered, don't do this every time your child whines violently or your little one will always act like this in order to get the things they want.
What to do if the child has this abnormal tantrum sign?
As mentioned earlier, tantrums are a normal thing in the development of your baby. However, if you realize that the category of tantrums your child is experiencing has crossed the line, there are several ways you can do this, such as:
First, start with yourself and your family.
If you've tried talking to your child about bad habits before, don't give up just because your little one isn't showing any changes. You can try other ways of delivery that are easier for your little one to digest.
Also give examples of good things that your little one can do if he is being hit by intense anger or sadness. Usually the child's attitude will change with age and there is a family atmosphere that supports changes in children's attitudes.
Consult a child psychologist
Furthermore, if you feel unable to handle this, consult your child's situation to a psychologist. Not only the condition of the child, you can also convey the circumstances that are going on in the family to help the psychologist assess the causes of tantrums that are dangerous to your little one.
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